first impression

well they say first impression is VERY important. what say u? as for me, its true that first impression plays a major role in potraying ourself in front of others, bt its not always right, because i've experienced that sometimes we made a false impression to someone. be it from good but turn out to be bad and vice versa.

ok lets quote an example here, what will your impression be when you see someone got up from their seat in LRT to give it to an old lady who deserves it more. i would say that he/she is a very kind person, ada kesedaran civil yg bagus, mungkin sgt cool, dan interesting. bagi saya lh. and to those yg boleh lagi nk galak2 borak ngn kwn2 dia, pada hal nenek tua berdiri dh mcm nk jatuh dpn mata, mmg sgt tidak beradab, tiada kesedaran, saya x ingin pun nk kenal *ohh kalau ada kwn2 saya mcm ni, SHAME ON U* dan segala yg buruk lh. FIRST IMPRESSION, ingat tu.

lets say u saw a mom with her child yg merengek2 nk beli sesuatu kt toysRus, first mom: pujuk anak baik2, ckp elok2. second mom: pg cubit anak dia, marah2, anak dia pun nangis bingit satu mall. well my impression to the first mom, seorang yg penyabar, mesti anak dan suami syg dia, good in handling situation in public, selalu nya org yg berpelajaran. to the second mom: kene pergi kursus keibu bapaan, panas baran, kalau kt public pun mcm ni xtau ah kt rumah mcm mana, lain kali jgn bwk anak masuk toysRus ok??? FIRST IMPRESSION again, ingat tu!

ok lh last example. seorang yg selalu buat muka kerek, pendiam, x byk ckp. my impression, takut nk tegur, mungkin dia ni x ramai kwn *sbb org lain pun takut nk tegur*, sombong, fussy dan bla bla bla. tapi kalau seorang yg selalu senyum, ckp pada tempat2 yg bersesuaian, semua org akan senang nk berkawan, akan RAMAI kawan, periang dan bla bla bla.

kalau nk cerita pasal first impression ni, mmg banyak, takut korang boring je nk baca, tapi key word hari ni ialah FIRST IMPRESSION, ingat tu. as i mentioned earlier sometimes first impression x betul pun, and its totally TRUE. ada org nmpk pendiam, tp dh kenal BEST weihhhh dia org ni, ha pernah experiencd x? pernah kn. mcm mak yg marah2 kt toysRus tu, mungkin dia tgh PMS hari tu, sbnrnya dia baik je kt rumah kn? and orang yg bgn bg seat LRT kt nenek tu mungkin seorang yg paling di benci kt college. mana tahu? tapi ingt, org mmg selalu judge dr first impression!

ohh mungkin ada satu je lh impression yg x kn salah! kalau korang nmpk remaja yg muda belia, yg PASTI xde sumber pendapatan lagi tu, pakai bag gucci mahu pun louis vuitton ke kelas, sudah PASTI mereka mempunyai sugar daddy *xkesah lh ayah sendiri mahupun bkn* :p. oh atau pun dia beli kat petaling street :)) *gurau2 jgn marah :p*